My take on the “That Girl” trend

The world right now is filled with tendencies, some of which can be truly demeaning to others and even toxic. The “That Girl” trend is all about telling young girls that they should exercise, eat healthy, have great skincare, and really take care of themselves.

But is it really a good trend? Or will it turn into one of those toxic tendencies that tell young girls they’re not good enough in the eyes of society?

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About the “That girl” trend

“It’s about living your best life and being known as the nice girl and not the bitch.” How To Be “That Girl” Of TikTok Trending In 2021 – Tonking Around

“Becoming that girl isn’t about being someone else or copying their lifestyle. It’s about becoming the best version of yourself.” How To Be “That Girl” Of TikTok Trending In 2021 – Tonking Around

At first glance, the “That Girl” trend honestly looks pretty awesome. It teaches young girls how to take good care of themselves and how to find their own identity.

The trend is based on developing a healthy lifestyle with a sense of style that you really love, instead of following what everyone else is wearing. Here’s a TikTok that gives helpful tips on how to become “That Girl.”

What does it take to become “That Girl”?

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Balanced diet

  • Eat lots of fruits and vegetables.

  • To drink a lot of water.

  • Limit your cheat days.

  • Drink lots of healthy shakes and smoothies.

  • Remember to stick to your diet!

Practice

  • Start training every morning. Many recommend following a Chloe Ting workout.

  • Follow the workouts

  • Build your strength.

  • Have a healthy body

Appearance

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  • Choose a style of dress and stick to it.

  • Wear minimal makeup.

  • Have nice painted and tidy nails.

  • Have a fresh haircut/beautiful hairstyle.

  • Wash your face twice a day.

  • Try acne masks once a week.

  • Whiten your teeth.

Way of life

  • Focus on your mental health. Having good mental health will make life much easier. (For more information on mental health, click here for my TTM article on mental health and how to improve it.)

  • Get into journaling. Write down what you did each day and how you felt. Keep track of your good and bad habits and reflect on them at the end of the week to see what you should be doing to make your life even better.

  • Get up and go to bed early

  • Read more.

  • Take walks every day.

  • Keep your room clean and organized.

Could this trend be toxic?

Overall, I don’t think the trend itself is toxic or harmful to girls. This trend is all about developing a healthy lifestyle and your own identity, but like any trend, there is always a stereotype of who participates.

Since the trend is based on how you look and act, I think it could cause body image and self-esteem issues. So for many girls who don’t fit the “That girl” stereotype, it could be potentially dangerous and problematic. But in general, I wouldn’t consider this trend to be toxic.

Do you want to know more about being “That Girl”?

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Below are some links to TikToks explaining the trend and what you need to do to become “That Girl”.

@kaylieestewart

part 1 of becoming the best version of yourself in 2022 🤍🥬 #motivation #thatgirl #healthylifestyle #healthylifestylechange #fyp

♬ this is what falling in love feels like – JVKE

@mlnrpanna

Love yourself🌿🌟🤍#thatgirl #selfcare #tips #foryou #fypシ #lifestyle #motivation

♬ SZAS VERSE KISS ME MORE – SZA FAN PAGE!

@urfavadv1cepage

how to be that girl in 2022 #fyp #2022 #thatgirl

♬ оригинальный звук – купите колу

@everpeachy

Important! you don‘t have to do this everyday! It‘s all about balance🤍 #thatgirl #morningroutine #fyp #selfcare #healthylifestyle

♬ this is what falling in love feels like – JVKE

@vanessafaga

a lot of new faces here! Hiii🤍 what kind of videos do you want to see in 2022?✨ #fyp #morningroutine #thatgirl #dailyvlog #2022 #healthylifestyle

♬ PEACE – ar1esluver

@purescape.co

How to be THAT girl! #thatgirl #girltok #tipsforgirls #confidence #glowup

♬ Like a G6 – Like a G6 Karaoke

@saberaq

sometimes the little wins are the big ones! #thatgirl #morningroutine #fyp

♬ GIMME MORE SLAYYYTER REMIX – Tik Toker