The ultimate feeling of betrayal is, unfortunately, common these days.
The well-known feeling of having your heart cut into pieces before being run over by an SUV. And the biggest question of being deceived.
How can I overcome this kind of pain? How to start trusting others again?
These are very common questions among young people. When you are cheated on, the most common feeling is the fear that all the other partners will betray you in the same way.
I am here to tell you that is not the case.
Although your heart will hurt for a while, it will heal one day. And I’ll tell you a few things to keep in mind when the unthinkable happens.
I promise the world is not ending and there is light at the end of the tunnel.
life will go on
It sounds a little harsh, but the best thing to do is to just move on. Yes, you loved this person more than you could imagine.
However, when they do this kind of dirty to you. The best thing to do is let them go.
Why should they keep you up at night with tears? Why should they still be so important in your mind if they didn’t keep you on the same level. The pain is real, but their love for you obviously wasn’t.
Let them go. Let them be mean elsewhere. I promise it will.
You’re not alone
At the moment, you feel like the only person who could have gone through this. But you are not alone.
There will always be people who will do that to you. And that same person is about to make it to the next one. And so on.
But you are not alone in this case. Other people feel your pain. Other people have experienced the same thing. And you will never be alone in this pain. And never think you’re the only one.
You are not and you will always have support and understanding for your pain.
All people are not the same
You’re probably very afraid of getting hurt again right now. And that’s completely understandable.
This person hurt you very badly. And you have every right to feel whatever you want to feel.
However, you should know that not all of them are the same. Not everyone you date will betray you like this. You just gotta give love another chance. You’ve seen the red flags. Just be aware of prospective partners and their red flags.
But I promise, not everyone is like that. You will find one that will blow your mind. And this person will shock you at how perfect they are for you. You just have to be patient.
At the end…
In the end, there will always be a little pain. This pain leaves fear, fear leaves PTSD, and PTSD leaves little trust.
But one day it will all be gone. Your partner forever will eliminate these fears and leave only happiness and confidence. You just have to wait and be patient. This person will pick you up one day.
And one day, all the bad memories will fade in the darkness of the night. Stay strong my friends, the end is near.