Your first love doesn’t have to be “the one”, but it could be.

This is dedicated to those who long to be in love but are still too afraid to let themselves fall in love.

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A gift to humanity, so that we can live with each other’s faults, and also cherish them. Yet no one could define love, because it is a sacred feeling that demands to be understood not with rationality, but only through the heart. So I dare say that only those who have been in love know what love is.

I’ve seen a lot of people’s intense affection for someone else, but they never get into a relationship because they imagine themselves to be broken, or just losing interest and possibly hurting themselves. But love is meant to be a mystery every time, and you have to be brave enough to find out. Sometimes comes happy-ever-afters.

So don’t be afraid to love and fall. Why? Don’t stop scrolling!

You were a risk, a mystery and the most certain thing I’ve ever known.

If you never try, you never know.

It doesn’t mean getting into a relationship with anyone possible or rushing, but if you have strong feelings for someone, go ahead and give it a shot. Many adults say this to their children: “You’re too young to have your first love, you’re not ready, focus on your studies instead.” But one thing they lack is that love can come at 16, at 24, or when you’re retired at 62. Love can happen anytime now.

The truth is no one can control when they find “the one”, all we can do is be willing to give it a shot. Today you only need a little more courage. At least you don’t have to wonder and regret something that never happened. So yes, if you never try, you never know how your “fantastic” relationship would end. If you never try, you will never know love.

I saw my parents fall in love for the first time in their lives and I’m still the most wonderful couple I’ve ever known. I saw my cousin marry his high school girlfriend. Other people’s stories may not guarantee yours, but they do guarantee that there is possibility in everything. So, I encourage you to face your feelings, not a wave of emotions, but real and sincere feelings. I encourage you to fight for your own heart if you know you care. And only then do I encourage you to love, foolishly and without fear.

Is it a good thing to be experienced in love? Sure!

No one ever wants to be hurt. Deep in our minds, we all secretly wish our first love was that, but life doesn’t always work that way, and we’re often hurt multiple times before we meet them, let alone end them. But still, it’s the only way you can experience love, and believe it or not, it’s not as bad as you think.

If you’ve been in love before, you’ll find it easier to meet your soul mate and not make the same mistakes you might have made, because no matter how much you love them, it’s common to misunderstand and misunderstand each other. let it go. sensitivity.

A man can learn to surprise his girlfriend with small gifts and bouquets of flowers without special events. He can force himself to remember dates better, even the smallest ones, like the first time they held hands. We all grow better with experience.

It’s okay if it doesn’t work

Last but not least, don’t be afraid to love and fall, because it’s okay if it doesn’t work the first time, or many times after. You may feel heartbroken and betrayed, or an emptiness within yourself, wishing you had never pushed yourself into this situation, but guess what? You still have memories. Beautiful ones that obviously count more than nothing at all.

In love, the most important thing is not the result, but the process. Marriage or divorce are just titles, and 2 or 10 years are just numbers. What matters most is how you felt and how you developed during this relationship, so if it doesn’t work out this time, it’s fine.

Later, you will be surprised to find out how much your unsuccessful relationships have actually done you good and helped you mature. Finding “the one” is not necessarily the goal of falling in love. Sometimes falling in love helps you heal the wounds within yourself, or just savor what it feels like to miss someone from dusk till dawn. What it’s like to be able to point them out easily in a crowd, to think they’re beautiful no matter what, to spend the whole night talking, laughing at little nonsense. To feel important and necessary.


Dear readers,

The purpose of this article is not to force you into a relationship to show people that you are not alone. It’s to hopefully give you some courage and determination to pursue love, so that when that special someone finally shows up, you’ll fearlessly go to them and cherish their flaws.

And I hope you will eventually find your “one”.